“Prayer is believing in something bigger than yourself, or anything you’ve ever touched or known. It’s telling a river or an open field that you need a little help.” ~ Ashley Rice …
Wow! Such beautiful words describing the endless power of prayer to reach, touch, and affect things that are beyond our comprehension and understanding. Prayer unites us in oneness with all of creation–the spiritual and eternal beings, all living creatures of this Earth, and things that have been, are, and will be. Of course, this is something most of us do not associate with prayer, for we are too caught up in the basics–how we pray, where we pray, when we pray, what we pray. But when we look at prayer in such a way, what purpose is there to telling a river or an open field that we need a little help?
Prayer does not have to be complicated. It is a simple, personal experience, in which our soul connects with all of life on a much deeper level. Perhaps this is why it is best experienced in the solitude of mind, body, and heart, for at such times, we have far fewer distractions and voices in our heads, and we can be fully in the presence of creation. When we escape to nature and serenity, we have the opportunity to feel the immensity and grandiosity of our world, and to sense our smallness, and yet importance and belonging, within it. And it is here, that we feel a closeness to the divinity within us; where our doubts and questions about our Father are answered, and our understanding of our purpose and meaning in life is reinforced.
And for those who might hold reservations about seeking through prayer, or asking God for help, realize that no force exists that has more concern for our well-being than our Creator, and no time is better to ask than when we are closest to Him, for we hear and sense His voice answering. After all, to whom do we ask for help more often in our daily lives… those who are close to us, or those who are further away? It goes to follow that the closer we feel to God, the more positive the effects of our prayers feel to us; and since prayer is as much about ourselves as it is about God, how we enter prayer, and how we feel about our prayer, goes a long way towards determining the effectiveness of our prayers.
Prayer is how our inner souls speak; the communication we share with all of creation. And since God is omnipresent–with everything and in everything, it makes perfect sense to speak to a lake when our intention is to speak to God, for the lake is just as much a part of creation as anything else, and its beauty and peacefulness provide a very appropriate backdrop for the prayers we send forth. All that is necessary for effective communication is a sender, a receiver, and a medium–and nature is perhaps one of the most majestic and beautiful mediums in which to contact our Creator.
Take some peaceful time in prayer outdoors.
Questions to consider:
Why do we get locked into certain prayer rituals or methods?
Where do you pray the best? Where do you feel that your prayers are most effective?
How can we teach ourselves to look for new ways to pray?
For further thought:
“I love to think of nature as an unlimited broadcasting station, through which God speaks to us every hour, if we will only tune in.” ~ George Washington Carver, In His Own Words
Responsibilities Focused
“Many of society’s problems at this time appear to be caused by people’s rights being abused. As a result, we are almost totally rights oriented. The Scriptures, however, speak far more about responsiblities than about rights. According to Scripture, if people concentrated on their responsibilities, others would have their rights.” ~ Stuart Briscoe, What Works When Life Doesn’t …
Most societies of today are almost entirely rights focused–looking externally at how the world and others are making their lives worse, instead of looking internally at what responsibilities are necessary from them to make the world a better place. Honestly, we need not turn far to find some individual or group yelling about how their rights are being abused. But the simple truth is that “if people concentrated on their responsibilities, others would have their rights.”
So what are our responsibilities? The jobs, duties, and tasks that require our attention and need to be completed? The choices and decisions of those in our care or who we love? We often get to feeling that everything is our responsibility–that we are supposed to be involved in everything and let our thoughts, feelings, and our ways of managing situations be forced on others. But this perspective does not respect that we are all unique and individual souls, separate from one another, yet one through our common bonds of humanity and spirituality. And it is often the cause of a lot of stress, grief, anger, and unhappiness in life, not just to us but to all those around us. Most of us have seen or know of a micromanager–someone who not only does their job but also tries to tell everyone else how to do theirs down to the smallest of details.
But this philosophy is not a “live and let live” approach to life, but rather a “live and tell others how to live.” One that downplays the unique importance of the authentic contributions we each have to share, and prevents us from traveling down our own individual paths of life. And this often leaves us fearful of angering others or triggering retaliation, or of being laid off or fired; or afraid of causing the withdrawal of affection, attention, and love of those who are important to us.
How often do we make it our own responsibility to help others out–at home in our families, at school, or in the office? How often do we tell others how to take care of their own responsibilities? Do we get in the way of others–even if we have the best of intentions or only with to protect them, support them, or help them to learn? The truth is that we all have our own responsibilities to take care of and that should be enough. And when we tell others how to take care of their own responsibilities we interfere with their happiness and make a mess of their paths in life.
Try not to direct the affairs of others if it be unnecessary or at all possible.
Questions to consider:
What causes people to want or need to interfere in the lives of others instead of taking care of their own responsibilities?
How often do you find yourself telling others how they should do things under the guise of “advice?”
How is telling others how to deal with their responsibilities or how to live their lives, taking away their rights?
For further thought:
“Letting go doesn’t mean we don’t care. Letting go doesn’t mean we shut down. Letting go means we stop trying to force outcomes and make people behave. It means we give up resistance to the way things are, for the moment. It means we stop trying to do the impossible–controlling that which we cannot–and instead, focus on what is possible–which usually means taking care of ourselves. And we do this in gentleness, kindness, and love, as much as possible.” ~ Melody Beattie, More Language of Letting Go
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