“All grown-ups were once children… but only a few of them remember it.” ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery.
Ephesians 6:4 NIV
Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
Do you remember what it was like being a child? To possess the ability to play by yourself and let your imagination run free; to be carefree and content with life in its current form; to be yourself with truly no inhibitions and without a care in the world. If we do not remember what it was like… perhaps it would do us well to spend some time in reflection and observing children to help us refresh our memories a bit. And if we do remember… well then why not allow ourselves the opportunity to experience some of those positive qualities of being a child once again?
Being an adult does not mean that we can no longer allow ourselves to experience the wonderful qualities of being a child. For instance, many of my adult friends spend too much time worrying about life–their finances, their jobs, their houses and cars, their relationships. It is important that we fulfill our obligations and responsibilities; however, we can still do so with a cheerful and lighthearted attitude. Worry simply eats away at the potential happiness we could be experiencing in life.
We are here to teach children… just as much as they are here to teach us. Respect the institutions of life, but learn to relax. Be silly and have fun in life. Allow yourself to be who you really are. Learn to enjoy life and find positive in whatever comes your way. Good or bad–you are going to have to face it either way.
Allow your younger self to be free today.
Questions to consider:
How seriously do you take life? Do you allow yourself to have fun?
What is your definition of fun?
Why do our concerns and worries often grow so strong in our lives?
For further thought:
“Children have a remarkable talent for not taking the adult world with the kind of respect that we are so confident it ought to be given. To the irritation of authority figures of all sorts, children expend considerable energy in “clowning around.” They refuse to appreciate the gravity of our monumental concerns, while we forget that if we were to become more like children our concerns might not be so monumental.” ~ Conrad Hyers
“Clear out the old because of the new.”
“A new year can begin only because the old year ends.” ~ Madeleine L’Engle, The Irrational Season.
Mark 2:22 NIV
And no one pours new wine into old wineskins. Otherwise, the wine will burst the skins, and both the wine and the wineskins will be ruined. No, they pour new wine into new wineskins.”
It can be difficult for many of us to accept this truth in life–that for something new to begin, the old must come to an end. Perhaps that is because many of us have placed so much of our limited time, effort, and resources into those things that have now passed. But if we cling to the things of the yesterday, we will be unable to experience the coming tomorrows through anything other than the perspectives of the past.
When a movie ends, it is over. We will carry its memory with us, and we may use its lessons in certain aspects of our lives, but it is over. So it is with the many chapters in our lives; we must die to the old to give way to the new. And when one year ends, we can allow it to be over–there really is no need for us to carry around the excess baggage of yesterday.
We must work to live each day on its own terms so that we might make the most of the present time we have been gifted–for that is exactly what the “present” time is… a gift. And when today draws to a close, hopefully we will be able to put this past year behind us and place our focus on the next year, free from the worries, concerns, and uncertainties of the past, and open to all the potential and possibilities that lie ahead.
“Clear out the old because of the new.” Leviticus 26:10
Questions to consider:
Why do wo tend to carry our yesterdays into today? What effect does this have on our lives?
What is required of us to allow a year to end?
What are some ways in which you can help to ensure that your new year starts out right?
For further thought:
The object of a new year is not that we should have a new year. It is that we should have a new soul and a new nose; new feet, a new backbone, new ears, and new eyes. Unless a particular man made New Year resolutions, he would make no resolutions. Unless a man starts afresh about things, he will certainly do nothing effective. Unless a man starts on the strange assumption that he has never existed before, it is quite certain that he will never exist afterwards. Unless a man be born again, he shall by no means enter into the Kingdom of Heaven.
~ G.K. Chesterton, Daily News
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